March 10th's Photo!

 

Allison stayed at Pa Pa and Grandma's for the weekend and she came home tonight with her favorite DARK chocolate cupcakes with DARK chocolate icing!

 

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March 9th's Photo!

I forgot to adjust my Market Day order by the deadline and I have to  pick up 3 boxes of ChicNSteaks on Wednesday.

I have no clue where I'm going to put them!

On a side note: Do you see the 3 grapes between the ice cream and the sherbet? Allison loves frozen grapes and puts them in my freezer from time to time. I wish she would put them in a freezer bag!

 

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March 4th's Photo!

Allison and I are going to New York City with the Girl Scouts in August. I thought a jar on the kitchen counter where we see it every day will help keep us focused on our goal.

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February 17th's Photo!

Items I found in the right pocket of Allison's coat when I cleaned it out so I could wash it. Hmmm, looks like her Dad's pockets and I thought we were past the dinosaur phase.

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February 12th's Photo!

I officially filled the last open Saturday in March with a Girl Scout activity. That makes 8 Saturdays in a row when you add February's 3 to the list. Good times!

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February 9th's Photo!

Red Lobster's Chocolate Wave Cake makes one little girl very happy!

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February 3rd's Photo!

Allison's book bag is packed to capacity and ready to go with all the work she missed while being out with the flu.

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February 1st's Photo!

A new coloring book and new crayons help pass the day of a couch confined child.

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January 31st's Photo!

Blueberry hot tea in a smiley mug for my little flu girl on the mend!

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January 30th's Photo!

Fighting the flu on the couch with her baby, kitty, tissues with lotion, ginger ale and the trash can.

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Santa?

I shared back on November 1st that Allison found out the truth about Santa. You can click here to see that post. Since that time, I have tried to get her to go see Santa one last time. She rolls her eyes and pretty much tells me there is no point since she really knows who Santa is. I told her that those who don't believe get underwear for Christmas and she replies "Yay, from their Mother!" 

Oh well. I finally gave up and accepted that her Santa days are over!

Unless . . . Santa isn't really Santa!

What? I'm confusing myself!

Take a look at the picture below. Does Santa look the least bit familiar? 

If you guessed that it's my Curtis, then give yourself a prize!

It IS my Curtis!

He volunteers for an animal rescue that predominantly rescues & fosters cats and kittens. It's the same rescue where we adopted Porsche from.

He gets to play Santa at Petco for pet portraits. He did it this last Sunday and is doing it on the 16th as well. He asked me if I thought they asked him to do it because he is good with animals or because he is the only one sucker enough to do it. Hmm...not sure but it's for a good cause so does it really matter?

So, of course, I had to get a picture of Allison with "Santa" and I think it's the best picture of her with Santa that I have ever had!

Her comment was and is priceless . . . "The last picture I'll ever have taken with Santa and it's my DAD!"


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Tell Me What is on Your Mind, Baby Girl!

A year or so ago, I found myself struggling as a Mother. I felt that I must have been doing something wrong because Allison wasn't the Allison she once was. She wasn't happy all the time like she used to be. She was cranky. She complained about everything. She was not not nice to be around. Quite frankly, I didn't like the person I thought she was becoming. I felt the strong connection we once had with each other was slowly slipping away.

Of course as I usually do with most things, I blamed myself. I told myself that it was because I was working full time. It was because I couldn't give her the attention that she needed. I felt that if I didn't have such a stressful job, then I would have more energy in the evening to be the Mom I wanted to be . . . instead it took everything I had just to get through homework, dinner, bath and bedtime.

I shared this with her teacher last year. Thankfully, she said she didn't see all of this in class. However, she did tell me that she was about to tell me something that I probably didn't want to hear. Oh. My. Word! I gasped! What could it be????? Those few seconds ripped through my soul just anticipating what I was about to hear about my once sweet baby girl!  I braced myself and her teacher said "puberty." Oh geez! I had not even thought about that! Allison is physically such a tiny little thing that I sometimes forget that she is maturing! The teacher was wrong! I am so glad she brought that to my attention. It was the answer to my frustration and self-persecution!  Amen!

The teacher also shared with me that I shouldn't be too concerned with how she is at home. Was she serious??? Did she not know that I sometimes referred to her as the spawn of the devil??? Anyway, once she explained, I understood. She said that Allison was a perfectly sweet, well-mannered little girl with a great sense of humor who was always kind and sweet to everyone in her class. WHAT??? Were we talking about the same kid????  She continued . . . she said that I should be thankful that we've created an environment at home where Allison can feel comfortable and safe. That she can let her hair down and just relax in the comfort of our home when she isn't at her best. I'll take that! It was a great compliment!

So. Now that I knew puberty was to blame for what we had been going through, I needed to find a way to bridge the gap in our relationship that was slowly getting larger. I knew the most difficult time for a Mother and a daughter was just a few years away and if I didn't handle this right away, things could really get ugly.

One of the things I saw on a blog several years ago was a Mother/Daughter journal. Sadly, they had lost their youngest child in a horrific, backyard, freak accident. Their therapist had suggested this journal idea to the Mother for a way to communicate with her older daughters. I thought it was a such a great idea! I put it back in my arsenal of Mom ideas that I may need some day.

I think the day had come that I needed to pull this idea out and put it to use. I found this hardback journal and thought it was perfect for keeping the "peace" between Allison and I.

One the inside front cover, I wrote a little letter to Allison explaining what the journal was and how it was to be used.

"Allison,
This book is between just you and me. It's for no one else to see. If you have a question, thought, or some love to share, use this journal and put it under my pillow. I will write back with my thoughts, questions, and love and return it to under your pillow.
Love,
Mom
XOXOXO"

I share it, here on my blog, not just because it's a great idea but to share a few my observations of the benefits of this journal.

• Some of the questions Allison has asked in this journal, she has never spoken of or mentioned before. This makes me realize there is a lot going on in that brain of hers. By having this tool of communication, she can ask questions or bring up subjects that she may not feel comfortable approaching in person.
• Since some of the questions are "heavy", this allows me time to think it through and answer her with my perspective on the subject in detail and completely. If I need to ask her Daddy about his opinion on the subject, again, I have time before replying.
• Another benefit of this journal is that it is used as a reference book. Allison can look back on it to review my perspective or advice on the subjects we address in this book.

These are just a few benefits but there are so many more.

If you have a daughter, I highly suggest you start one. She will get to know you a little better and you will get an inside look into the person she is becoming. It doesn't take much time at all. It is not an every day thing for us. We use it when we need it.

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The Truth is Out!

One of the things I've dreaded about being a Mom is when Allison found out about Santa, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. Since I stress honesty to her, my fear was that once she found out the truth she would be mad at me for not telling the truth or she would wonder what else I lied to her about.

The truth all came out and it started with the Tooth Fairy.

On October 3rd of this year, Allison came home from school and told me she had a loose tooth. I looked at it and it was only about 1/2 way loose. I figured the Tooth Fairy had some time to get some things together. She complained a little later about it hurting so I gave her some pain medication and she went to bed.

Fast forward to the next morning at about 5:30 am. I was in the living room and Allison came down and went to lay on the couch. I asked her how her tooth was and she said "Good, because it came out last night." That little stinker worked on it until it came out!

I panicked! I asked her what she did with it. She said she put it in a glass of water on her nightstand. (Our tradition is to put it in the water and the Tooth Fairy comes and removes it and sprinkles glitter into the glass and around her room. The color of the glitter signifies what color her dress is that she is wearing.) I asked her what the Tooth Fairy left her and she said she forgot to look. I told her that I was going up to take a shower and when I'm done, I will call her up and we will look together. She said, okay. Thank goodness! It bought me some time! I ran down to the basement and grabbed a pink leopard change purse I had bought for her Christmas stocking and threw two dollars in it and put it under her pillow.

When I called her up and she went to see what the Tooth Fairy left her, she was so thrilled! But then she asked me if was it me or the Tooth Fairy that put it under her pillow. I asked her what she thought. She said that I wouldn't have had time to go out last night and buy the change purse. She also added that I hate glitter. She then dropped it and so did I.

We continued to get ready for school and work and then went downstairs to make breakfast. As I was making breakfast, she brought it up again. I look at her in her eyes asked her "Are you asking me if the Tooth Fairy is real or not?" She replied, "Yes." My response was, "Are you sure you want to know?"

She then screamed, "I knew it!" and then said. "Santa too?"

I said, "Yes and you might as well throw the Easter Bunny in there too."

At this point I was ready for her to flip out about me telling the lies.

I told her that she had just crossed over and now knows the magic between a Mother and a child.

I asked her if she was mad at me for not telling her the truth. Her response was, "Heck NO, I can't wait to do it for my kids!"

Whew! I immediately knew I was off the hook for not telling the truth! Woo hoo!

And just because I like pictures on blog posts, here is a picture of Allison when she was 5 1/2 with Santa. Wasn't she just the cutest thing?

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9 Month Update!

Yes. It's me again  . . . 2 days in a row!

I thought since I hadn't been here for 9 months, I would do a quick update to catch you all up with what has been going on in our lives.

Okay! Okay!  . . . nothing is QUICK with me!

I'll summarize this post with the good and the bad.

I'll start with the Bad.

The Bad: There are 9 months worth of stuff below.

The Good: It's mostly pictures.

The Bad: There are over 60 pictures.

The Good: There are few words to narrate the pictures. :)

Okay, maybe not a few words....you all know I am not capable of the abridged version of anything!

Ready? Here we go!

February

Allison competed in the Equations Tournament at Slippery Rock University. I wasn't able to go because of work so Daddy and Grandma went to support her. I'm on Facebook and I love looking at all the pictures my friends' kids in football, cheering, band, karate, etc. My kid's sport (and I loosely call it that) is Academic Games. Seriously, how nerdy can we get here! I feel funny posting pics on FB with a caption like: "Here's my Allison at her LinguiSHTIK's Tournament." So. This is my blog and I'm going to post it here! I'm so proud of her and that brain she has in her head that I'm hoping someday she'll be a well known scientist with an amazing discovery and I can live with her and take care of her babies!

 There are 4 boys and Allison in the gifted program (GLO) from her grade level. They call themselves "4 Dudes and a Chick" at these competitions. It's too cute and I LOVE all the boys in her group . . . although, Allison likes one a little too much! Here he is teaching her how to play pinball during a break. I wish I had one of his face to show you but Curtis didn't get a good one. Don't worry though, I'll share one soon! They are joined at the hip! The Gifted Coordinator tells me that he is the male version of her! Lord help us!

Curtis and I attended a surprise birthday party with a Godfather theme. He makes a pretty handsome gangster if I do so say myself!

My favorite young adult, Stephanie, and her boyfriend, AJ, also attended. Aren't they a cute couple?

It was so nice to have an adult night out with Steph and AJ. I love that girl!

I tried a new method of cooking Brussel sprouts and I will never make them any other way again!

I cut them in 1/2  and put them on a cookie sheet sprayed with non-stick spray. I sprayed them with the non-stick spray as well and added salt and pepper. Roasted them in a 400 degree oven for 30 minutes and turned them every 10 minutes. YUMMY!

March

I was able to cross an item off my bucket list when I met the Pioneer Woman. I absolutely LOVE her!

My BFF, Susan, her daughter, Stephanie, and I met after work when she had a book signing in Pittsburgh. It was Susan's birthday so that made it even more fun!

Below is all of us girls with the Marlboro Man (the Pioneer Woman's husband). He was not only so handsome but so nice and personable too! Mmmmm, there is just something about a REAL cowboy!  I better stop right there before I embarrass myself!

Here I am when I first met Ree. She is so lovely. I told her that I had been waiting for that moment for 6 years (the beginning of her blog) and she called me a "lifer" and gave me a hug. 

Can you tell I'm how excited I was?

I took my first SPA weekend with the girls at a Day Spa in Ohio. Here is Susan and I enjoying some margaritas the night before our appointments. 

Our lifelong friend, Monica, drove in to meet us for dinner after our day. We all have known each other since our elementary school days. It was SO nice to see her. There is just something about visiting with friends you've known your whole life. We really need another visit with each other soon!

Stephanie was also with us for the Spa Day. She brought a couple of her friends with her. It's was so nice to see them forming their lifelong friendships.

April

Easter - We always do a lot of traveling on holidays since both sets of our parents live 1 1/2 hours away from each other. It gets to be so tiring at times but as long as we are blessed with all of them still being with us, we will continue to do all the driving between their homes.

At the end of April, Allison bridged over to Cadettes in Girl Scouts. Sadly this is the last group pic of her troop as the leaders decided not to continue on with the troop. Thankfully, we have found a new troop so Allison can continue on through the levels. She really does love it so much. Also, 2 of the other girls are continuing on with her in the same troop. I'm glad we could keep them together.

Rudy, Curtis's best friend, came home from Afghanistan and treated himself to a new car. Sadly, Rudy had to go back to Afghanistan and had to garage the car for the next 5 months. 

I would have taken care of it for him but he wouldn't even let me test drive it in the parking lot! Some friend! 

May

Allison and I took a trip to my parents' for a little visit and I had my camera with me so I took some pics. This is where I grew up. I only wish Allison was raised out in the country as well. We live in the suburbs for now but not as far out as I would like.

My Dad's barn.

Some weeds growing at the edge of his soon to be planted garden. I don't know why I took this but I just thought they were cool.

Walking back up to the house from the barn.

Geez! Here are more weeds! They were growing out of the gutter on the back of the chicken coop. Well, it used to be a chicken coop but it's been converted to my Dad's workshop and where he starts his plants before he plants his garden.

Some azaleas growing along the garage.

Outside in my arborvitae, I had found that a bird made a nest and left some eggs. Well, she didn't really leave them. She was watching them from a tree close by.

It wasn't soon long after that we had babies. Really UGLY babies.

And then it wasn't long after that they were starting to get cuter. Sadly, this is the last picture as they were gone the next time I looked.

Also in May, Allison and I attended the Miss Pennsylvania Pageant (Miss America Organization) to support our friend, Kristy. Unfortunately, she didn't win the title this year . . . maybe next year . . . but it was still fun. Allison wants to start competing . . . please help me!

June

Allison went to my sister's for a week with her cousin, Mya. Alesia takes them every year for some girl bonding time. Here they are at Kennywood amusement park. Mya is my brother's daughter. The girls were born 4 days apart and are so close.

Curtis, Allison and I went to a drag race in Ohio for a little family fun. As you can see by this picture, Allison was not impressed with me taking a picture of her eating her breakfast.

Top fuel dragsters....it's hard to get a picture since they go so fast!

She really does love it. It's in her blood. She gets it from her Father!

My little Nitro Girl all prepared with her hat, sunglasses, ear protection, gatorade, hand sanitizer and her spray bottle water fan thingy. No, I'm not overprotective . . . did I mention her sunblock was in her little shoulder bag?

John Force's car. Well, one of them.

I tried a new casserole. I'm sure I am not the first to invent this but it was so yummy! I call it Ravioli Casserole. You make it just like lasagna but instead of the noodles, you use ravioli. Curtis and Allison loved it so I was happy!

July

We celebrated Allison's 11th birthday on the 16th of July. It is crazy how fast she has grown up! Everyone says it but until you experience it, it's hard to believe how time really does fly! 

I love that she reads every card from beginning to end!

Curtis and I surprised her with a new bike but I had Aunt Alesia pick it up since it's a little hard to hide. We waited until the very end and my sister brought it from around the side of the house and Allison freaked! She screamed "Thank you, Aunt Lisa!"  It was too funny! Of course, I quickly corrected her. It's bad enough Santa gets credit for some of the Christmas presents, I didn't want my sister to get the credit for the bike!

And as you can see, Porsche is fitting in nicely with our family.

August

I tried a new recipe that I found on Pinterest. 

Here are the instructions: 4-6 raw chicken breasts, new potatoes, green beans (fresh or canned-really any green veggie would work. Broccoli is good, too). Arrange in 9x13 dish. Sprinkle with a packet of Italian dressing mix and then top with a melted stick of butter. Cover with foil and bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour.

I didn't have a packet of Italian dressing mix on hand so I sprinkled cajun seasoning on the chicken and salt & pepper on the potatoes and beans. It was so easy and definitely a repeat!

In addition to the week my sister takes both girls during the summer, Alesia also takes just Allison for a week in August. The next several pics are of Allison's visit with Alesia and Ginger.

Ginger just LOVES Allison and sleeps with her instead of my sister!

Allison loves it. My sister, not so much.

Does my baby not look like a teenager in this pic?!?

Daddy better get ready to fight the boys off!

 They do a "little" school shopping at the outlets. Can you say spoiled????

They went to the Carnegie Museum of Natural History . . . one of Allison's favorite places.

They hung out with one of Alesia's friends and her son at the Children's Museum of Pittsburgh.

Hmm, I would have made her wear a harness on this wall! 

No! I'm not overprotective!

Allison loves the little kids and is so patient with them.

All dressed up ready for dinner!

Did I mention spoiled before? Aunt Alesia permits her to have her own dessert at dinner! Seriously?

     With nearing the end of summer, I picked up this cute little pool on clearance at Target for $12.50. It was just big enough for Allison to cool down in. Our neighbor's great grandson was here and stepped right in with his clothes on! He was too cute and had too much fun!

She had such a blast!

We went shopping with my Mom and Allison picked out stuff for a tween room. Hopefully the border will come in soon and we can finally update her room!

The first day of school. I am not even going to mention that it was a struggle to get a pic this year from my 6th Grader!

Oh wait! 

Did I just mention it?

September

Princess enjoying the new furniture! Not quite what I had in mind but if you are going to have pets, you have to deal with not having a perfect house. And yes, I own stock in lint rollers!

This next pic is not of the best quality because it was taken with my cell phone and it's a dumb one, not a smart one. 

Anyway, we have struggled with Allison gaining weight for years. It is so frustrating. I always knew my kid would have a problem with weight but I thought it would be being overweight not underweight. She is just a peanut and she seriously has only gained about 5 pounds in the last 4 years. We actually go to the doctor's every 6 months for a weight check. Well, this year she has finally gained weight! We are so excited! She has put on 7 pounds since January and has maintained it! She still only weighs 58 pounds and is the smallest kid in her 6th grade glass but we will take it. Her face has filled out (not as much in the pic below because she has food in her cheeks) and she looks so much healthier these days. So anyway, when we went to dinner and she was eating so good, I just had to take a pic! I had to laugh because the buffalo chicken wrap was dripping so she said she would put a napkin in her shirt like Baba (my Mom) does. And yes, that is her shake and she finished it!

These next several pics are of a photo shoot we did with Allison at McConnells Mill State Park. I am no photographer but I am very happy with how they turned out. Thank you Curtis for carrying around the chair for me!

I love her hair curly but she's really into having it straightened right now so I went with it because that is who she is at this age.

She hated the frame. I loved the frame. 

Please help me through her teenage years!

Being my silly girl!

And then very calm and relaxed.

You want my life, don't you? There's never a dull moment!

She kept on striking poses and most of them I loved!

This one I had made into a canvas for both sets of Grandparents.

Actually, this is the one I had made into a canvas for my Mom and Dad but then when it arrived, I thought maybe it was too serious. 

What do you think?

This picture I had made into an 18 x 24 inch canvas for us and it is just breathtaking! 

I love it and can't wait to hang it up after we paint the living room!

Yes, this is the chair I brought with us that Curtis carried around for me through the woods!

Love the look on her face here.

Yes. We had a wardrobe change in the middle of the woods! Daddy shielded her with his jacket. 

She's so somber in this one.

My little gypsy girl! This is the last and final wardrobe change. She looks so in her element out in the nature. Don't you think? I, of course, was having a panic attack climbing the rocks!

I had to zoom in for this one! I couldn't have made it over to that rock if I wanted . . .even if George Clooney was there . . . or George Strait . . . or the Marlboro Man!

She cracks me up with the looks she gives me sometimes!

Yippeee! This is the final one!

It was starting to get dark so this one didn't turn out that great. 

I tried playing with the color a little and end up with this.

It's a little artsy but I really like it!

 See. I promised that was the last one!

I'm sure there really isn't anyone still reading this. I probably lost everyone a few dozen pictures ago. 

Scratch that! There probably are 3 people that made it to the end so I'll thank you personally!

Thank you to the love of my life, Curtis! 

Thank you to my sister, Alesia!

And thank you to my BFF's Mom (and my second Mom), Sandy!

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